i decided today is a good day to just do something i have thought of for a long time.
i know what's going on. isn't it easier if you're not reminded at all of someone who you think have hurt you to the point that you don't care if that person is still a friend or not?
so here. let's just not be friends.
maybe you'll be happier.
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i miss the girls. need to catch up with nana and mai soon. sabb we miss u lots! doakan we can go tour europe with u next year ya?
i'll be away for 2 consecutive weeks in october for work. a hard decision to be made. i know i've been talking about leaving for so many times. but the fact remains sometimes i can't lie. i love the job too much. if i move can i fall in love with the new job? need advice from u people who have switched companies, because i've never left this company. :)
4 comments:
i miss u too babe!! yesss...jgn lupa our plans to tour europe.. :)
sometimes, the job may be the same whereever you go (especially if u still stick to something similar). but it's the company, the people, the culture, the environment that have to fit into the bigger picture. as flexible as we all can be, one cannot run away from comparing between old and new. so it is that adjustment that you have to make, and to fall in love with those things:)
good luck!
changing or leaving a familiar place (ie: company) is never easy. because we dont know how its like over there.
and because over here, where we are right now, is our comfort zone. we're familiar with everything whether its
heaven or hell on earth.
you wouldnt know how its like until you're there.
maybe you think you know whats going on, but its not exactly as simple as what it looks like.
maybe he didnt know he hurt you that much.. seriously. maybe thats the only option he got at that moment..
maybe he wished he can rewind things and start all over again but he knows whats done cannot be undone.
maybe you/he assume by not being friend is the easiest way. maybe. maybe not.
maybe in a few years time, you/he will look back on this and say… oh man, all of this is so silly… I should have handle it differently.. maybe you/he will realized this is a learning process for both of you.
Then, maybe you/him will be happier.
and yes, maybe all of the previous comments are true :)
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